There are exhaust brakes and engine brakes. I don't know all of the differences between them, but I do know that our Jake Brake works by re-timing the engine's exhaust valves, using back-pressure to slow the coach. It works great and I will frequently descend miles of 6% or 7% grades without touching the service brakes. We live out west and often have to climb and descend grades.
I never turn ours off - even when it's raining. We weigh in at about 40,000 lbs so traction is rarely a problem. I would turn it off on snowy roads, because that's what the owners manual says to do, but I leave it on its lowest setting in the rain. I wouldn't intentionally cross our mountain passes when it's snowing anyway, so snow would rarely be an issue. Our Jake Brake also works with our cruise control.
Here's something else to consider. If you're towing a car, make sure its auxiliary brake does not start braking, just because the brake lights are on. Someone on this Forum told me their older system did. Our coach's brake lights come on when the Jake Brake is braking, so our towed vehicle's brake lights come on too. If the towed vehicle's auxiliary brake started braking, just because the brake lights were on, the towed vehicle's brakes would get really hot when descending grades. The newer auxiliary breakng systems don't brake, just because the brake lights are on. They're programmable and have sensors to prevent that.
Kev