Hi. Hope someone can put things in perspective. Running into this dilemma of towing capacity vs tongue weights and trailer towed. My truck is 2012 Toyota Tundra 5.7L V8 4x4 with towing capacity of 9,700 lbs. tongue weight is 1,030 and class 4 hitch/receiver. Rear axle 4,150 front 4,000 and truck itself is 7,100 with 16,000 gross combined. Trailer is palomino solaire ultra super light 318tsbhk and is 35 ft long. Dry weight is 7,125 plus cargo and all. I estimate about 1,000 in extra cargo and stuff. I also use weight distribution with 14,000 max towing and 1,400 max tongue. My dilemma is if I have enough of truck for this trailer. Camping dealers think yes. I want to know if I am exceeding tongue weight and if so what does that really mean or does to the truck. Any other information needed or photos of anything, let me know. Thanks!