"RF modulator" is a fairly generic name for a class of signal converters. We need to know more about what DVD output you are converting with the RF modulator and the particular brand of modulator. And what input on the tv. Some modulators are video only, and some tv-in jacks are also video only. The yellow "Composite Video" in or out jack, for example.
If, for example, you are using the HDMI output from the DVD and converting via an RF modulator, the output of the modulator would typically be either component video (3 wires, RGB) or Composite Video (1 wire, yellow jack) PLUS a pair of audio output wires (typically red & white).
Please describe more about the DVD output, the modulator device, and the TV inputs in use. Also, is the tv the original '04 analog tv, or has it been updated for digital. Since you are using a modulator, I'm guessing its the original.