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Hi, just wanted to thank everyone here for their kindness (those of you who were kind that is) lol hee hee
I have decided that this lifestyle is not working out for me. The biggest deal is that i still just dont fit in anywhere. My impression of being a full timer was wrong from the very start and i guess i just did not do my research before i set out.
I stay to myself and i go out of my way to avoid drama and issues, but still i have had the cops called on me twice for something that i never did just because someone didnt like me and out of spite. The first officer (sheriff) agreed with me that it was nothing and that they were making a moutain out of a molehill, no crime was committed and that was that. Then when that didnt work or get me in trouble (as they hoped it would) then they called the local police to come see me saying i was doing things that were not true. Again no evidence at all just BS, im not that kind of person to do those things. But even though there was no crime committed and no evidence against me whatsoever it got me banned from a place i visit frequently. This officer found me guilty even before he walked up to me, he didnt want to talk, he just wanted to tell me what was going to happen and that was that, even though i did nothing at all to anyone.
So this time they got their way, im banned and the people that dont like me got their way for now. I am planning to visit the chief of police monday to get my good name back because character means something to me.
And then i will consider whether or not to sue them for defamation and i feel i have a good case. How someone cannot like me i dont know geeze im a totally nice guy with no ill intent.
But anyway to the topic sorry i had to preface this above.
It just turnes out that i dont fit in anywhere yet. Yes i have some friends here at the RV park who are very well known in this town and who will stand with me on this and give me great character references. However if being nice is a crime in this little town, then i dont want to be here anyway.
I thought that being a RV'er in a Texas small town would be no drama, kind people, fresh experiences, and just simple respect. But what i am finding and this goes for everywhere not just Texas, is that some people are just not born to fit in anywhere. And if that is the case with me then ill have to accept that fact and just realize that those that RV already have friends, and they go places to see those friends, and not to find new ones.
I wanted to RV because i thought it would be a great experience for me to not have to deal with all the BS that comes with dating and relationships and yet still have some social life, because im not looking for dating or sex or a romantic relationship of any kind. But that is not the case, the social life in RVing is built within the groups that already know each other and those that already have the social life and just make it mobile.
On top of all that RV or no RV im just one of those people that is always the third wheel no matter what the situation and i can live with that, but what i cant live with is having expectations of friendlyness and kindness in person and getting ripped a new one every time i put my hand out.
They say that the fabric of america is falling apart, i believe that to be true. When people no longer handle their own issues even with the slightest disagreement they feel the need to call the cops then we have lost the battle already. It used to be that issues where handled with discussion but now days you even look at someone wrong and here come the cops to hassle you because your the bad guy automatically.
I thought i was part something larger than myself being a RVer, but in reality its just another type of box to live in and no different than living in a home or shelter. Especially when no matter where you go people think your a freak just because you have no teeth, bald and over 6' tall. So regardless where i live it will always be the same thing.
So since i have failed at being an RVer as well then im selling everything, my RV, the leased lot, all my improvments and everything for $20,000 and im waking away and i have no idea where ill end up.
It is a hard lesson to learn and i hope the kids today learn it before its too late, and that lesson is "its what you have that gets you friends, not just who you are".
Anyway i had a couple of projects that i wanted to share but ill just sell this place and move on. Maybe one day ill be back maybe not, but i guess wherever i end up then ill have to except that is where the good lord wants me to be.
Take care everyone and thanks for your kindness always.
Peace...
dave
I have decided that this lifestyle is not working out for me. The biggest deal is that i still just dont fit in anywhere. My impression of being a full timer was wrong from the very start and i guess i just did not do my research before i set out.
I stay to myself and i go out of my way to avoid drama and issues, but still i have had the cops called on me twice for something that i never did just because someone didnt like me and out of spite. The first officer (sheriff) agreed with me that it was nothing and that they were making a moutain out of a molehill, no crime was committed and that was that. Then when that didnt work or get me in trouble (as they hoped it would) then they called the local police to come see me saying i was doing things that were not true. Again no evidence at all just BS, im not that kind of person to do those things. But even though there was no crime committed and no evidence against me whatsoever it got me banned from a place i visit frequently. This officer found me guilty even before he walked up to me, he didnt want to talk, he just wanted to tell me what was going to happen and that was that, even though i did nothing at all to anyone.
So this time they got their way, im banned and the people that dont like me got their way for now. I am planning to visit the chief of police monday to get my good name back because character means something to me.
And then i will consider whether or not to sue them for defamation and i feel i have a good case. How someone cannot like me i dont know geeze im a totally nice guy with no ill intent.
But anyway to the topic sorry i had to preface this above.
It just turnes out that i dont fit in anywhere yet. Yes i have some friends here at the RV park who are very well known in this town and who will stand with me on this and give me great character references. However if being nice is a crime in this little town, then i dont want to be here anyway.
I thought that being a RV'er in a Texas small town would be no drama, kind people, fresh experiences, and just simple respect. But what i am finding and this goes for everywhere not just Texas, is that some people are just not born to fit in anywhere. And if that is the case with me then ill have to accept that fact and just realize that those that RV already have friends, and they go places to see those friends, and not to find new ones.
I wanted to RV because i thought it would be a great experience for me to not have to deal with all the BS that comes with dating and relationships and yet still have some social life, because im not looking for dating or sex or a romantic relationship of any kind. But that is not the case, the social life in RVing is built within the groups that already know each other and those that already have the social life and just make it mobile.
On top of all that RV or no RV im just one of those people that is always the third wheel no matter what the situation and i can live with that, but what i cant live with is having expectations of friendlyness and kindness in person and getting ripped a new one every time i put my hand out.
They say that the fabric of america is falling apart, i believe that to be true. When people no longer handle their own issues even with the slightest disagreement they feel the need to call the cops then we have lost the battle already. It used to be that issues where handled with discussion but now days you even look at someone wrong and here come the cops to hassle you because your the bad guy automatically.
I thought i was part something larger than myself being a RVer, but in reality its just another type of box to live in and no different than living in a home or shelter. Especially when no matter where you go people think your a freak just because you have no teeth, bald and over 6' tall. So regardless where i live it will always be the same thing.
So since i have failed at being an RVer as well then im selling everything, my RV, the leased lot, all my improvments and everything for $20,000 and im waking away and i have no idea where ill end up.
It is a hard lesson to learn and i hope the kids today learn it before its too late, and that lesson is "its what you have that gets you friends, not just who you are".
Anyway i had a couple of projects that i wanted to share but ill just sell this place and move on. Maybe one day ill be back maybe not, but i guess wherever i end up then ill have to except that is where the good lord wants me to be.
Take care everyone and thanks for your kindness always.
Peace...
dave