>> What I would like is a mail service that will forward mail to me on request at an address I specify, but not just hand out my current location to anyone who asks for it.
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This is a FWIW as you wouldn't want a mail box in addition to forwarding. Though a full timer, I hang out in Sacramento when not traveling -- and have had a PO Box there for a number of years. A friend and business associate has always picked up my mail, eked out the junk and either forwarded the rest to me, or placed it in a stack for me upon my return. However, I now park about 30 miles NE of Sacto which makes the trip to my PO Box a bit much.
Anyway, I checked out the new UPS Stores concept -- one of which is only a few miles from me. After chatting with them, decided to rent one of their mail boxes -- I think I pay around $90/year for the size box I decided upon. They ARE UPS so the forwarding is really nice. I can either call, email, or go to their webpage to order a forward -- or schedule a forward on a regular basis. The cost of the foward is whatever the postage is for the type I order each time. They will also eke out whatever I say and toss it.
So for anyone lurking that has need for a PMB near their home base, this might be an alternative. I can't really use SKP or FMCA because my health plan is Kaiser. If I have an address out of my home area for more than 4 to 6 months, they will drop me in a heartbeat. Kaiser is a great health plan and I would hate to lose it.
Boy -- has this thread drifted, or what. ???