I prefer to have one, but I wouldn't make it a deal breaker if all else is fine, either. It IS handy, though, to help get the last little bits of stuff out of the black tank (or sometimes more than just bits). But your dumping habits are more important than the flush itself, including putting a couple or three gallons of water in the black tank after dumping to help the natural processes along. I'd do the same for the gray tank, since it also helps to keep seals and gaskets moist.