John
I won't say someone didn't say it was OK, but I have spent way more time trying to explain why a customer couldn't buy a tralre to tow with a truck than anything. Now that I am at a dealer that sells new trucks, we have a huge poster showing the weights etc. Tyoically I have seen folks rationalizing it after the fact. They buy a truck, pull something bigger, figure no problem, then pull sonething bigger yet.
I would hear the argument, "Hey, I pull my neighbors trailer with no issue and it weighs 28000 pounds! I know I can pull this one."