It would be most unusual for the fresh tank drain to go through the gray outlet, but anything is possible. Nor can I think of any normal valve arrangement that would do that sort of thing.
I'm curious - how did you determine it was that emptying the gray tank did this? If there was an open connection between fresh and gray, the water should have poured into the gray tank as you were filling the fresh. The water would have left the fresh tank whether you emptied the gray or not.
I think we have some other owners of older HR coaches here, so maybe somebody will have some ideas.