JGarrick said:
As for the rest of life, I feel just the opposite - we're becoming a bilingual country and that's a good thing. I get a chuckle from people who complain that new immigrants don't bother to learn the language, because I know that a lot of their grandparents or great-grandparents came here from Europe and either didn't learn English at all, or only knew enough to get by.
I will argue with that, I'm second generation American so it's MY grandparents you refer to (who came over from Germany in my case) and Grandpa decreed, when they decided to obtain US citizenship, that ENGLISH would, from that day forward, be the language of the house. My mother, who was the last child born to them (in 1930) speaks no German because, other than prayer (More on that in a second) she never heard German spoken in the hosue.
As for prayer,, Well, like Long Chaney. (In a move about his life his wife, who is sick, complains when he prays because he prayed in american sign language... she felt left out, he replied "It would not mean the same if I spoke the prayers", Grandfather was that way, he prayed in German because it would not be the same in English)
Imagine if you will a long table, One side is the sons in the Navy and their friends, the other is the Army sons and their friends. And at the head of the table, Grandpa saying Grace in German DURING WWII.
Mother, did speak fluent Spanish however. She learned it teaching ENGLISH to people who came over from Mexico.. Again, these were the actual immigrants who wanted despretly to learn English.
It is their grandchildren and great grandchildren who are demanding we teach in both Spanish and English.
Not the people you say never learned our language.. But people who, in many cases, had to learn "the old language' as a second language because their parents spoke only English