As Carl says, you have dead house battery(s). When the engine runs the alternator supplies 12v power, but when it is off you need the battery to power most things, including the circuit boards in the fridge and water heater. Lighting too.
As for why the house battery(s) are dead, they could be low on water, just plain old, or maybe the charging system in the coach is not working (you have a charger that works from shore power or generator, as well as the engine alternator).