Yes, I see your point. I was just thinking if Tom had somewhere to putter he might like going more. He is not
one to set in an over 55 park and do nothing, can't say I am either. Neither of us are golfers and though I like
fishing Tom doesn't and boating isn't for him. We would fish off a pier somewhere so no big issue for that. He
isn't against anything we want to do, I would just like him to feel like he is included too. Hard to do with a
workaholic. I am a semi retired workaholic, yep on the recovery program, sometimes succeeding, sometimes failing.
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I saw a place in Florida with 5 acres and a modular, he is going oh I could take the tractor and brushhog down there
and work on it. He sees the duplex in Texas as some place he can go twice a year and clean up the back acreage.
He was talking today, when I retire may get a tractor and blade and I could clear all the streets in our tiny town
of XXXX for people. THAT is how he sees retirement, but I've basically been doing the same thing.
I don't know we talk and it goes back and forth, we are so indecisive about something like that, what can I say.
It's all up in the air for sure. I just hope we stay healthy so these are our biggest dilemnas in life.