The culprit is a bad neutral, but I'd check the park outlet before blaming anything in your coach.
Neutral and ground are bonded together only at one place - the main electrical panel. In a campground this can be a significant distance from your site, so it's not unusual to find several volts difference between neutral and ground at the site outlet due to normal voltage drop along a long wire. But 41 volts is excessive and says there's a bad connection creating excessive voltage drop along the neutral.