We do love our Goldens.
Virtually all of the towed braking systems work almost the same way. They actuate the cars original brakes, either by a compressor, a vacuum pump, or the tow vehicles air brake connection. There's a mechanical system that uses something similar to surge brakes you'd find on a boat trailer. As far as I know nobody has a system that cracks into the cars hydraulics. The liability would be very troubling.
Engineering problems you may need to think about:
How much pressure is required on the Beemers brake pedal in the absence of vacuum boost? (Lots)
How much power is it going to take to generate the required force?
How are you going to isolate the two master cylinders from each other?
Forgetting to switch from one to the other could be disastrous.
I'm thinking the redneck looking device might actually be a safer choice. Look in the 'for sale' section of this site, Craigslist, Amazon etc.
I just sold an Evenbrake system yesterday for $150.
Or maybe you'll build a better mousetrap and make a bazillion bucks? ;D