Same boat as Mopardude out here.....wide, wide open spaces. Response time for law enforcement could be an hour away or more. There are also a lot of places where there is no cell phone service for 50 + miles in any direction. Basically, as far as protecting your loved ones and yourself, you're on your own. Your odds of encountering someone who wishes to inflict injury on you are minuscule....but they exist. That's good enough for me. It's under the dash of the truck or on my hip. I'm too old to fight and too young to die.
But when we travel, I like to research carry laws ahead of time. I'm going to carry either way...and will avoid the People's Republik states. Nobody will ever know I have it unless I have to use it, in which case whether or not it was "legal" to carry it will be the least of my problems. I'm one of them old school rednecks.....the second amendment IS my carry permit. If I have to face jurisprudence at some point because of my views, so be it. I go to extremes to avoid trouble and confrontation, and will gladly talk my way out of it, or walk (or run) away if that's an option. But when the easy solutions are exhausted to no avail, we go to Plan B.
Bottom line, it behooves folks to educate themselves ahead of time about legalities wherever they intend to travel.