I don't think you can "cook" a modern electronically controlled diesel - it always maintains the proper air/fuel ratio. Well, it will unless you modify the fuel or control system. And you certainly don't need to modify anything to get that 2000 7.3L to haul that little trailer. Completely stock it should haul 10,000+ plus with elan. And without a trailer in tow, it should outperform most stock cars of that vintage.
From what I read, 17- 20 psi is probably about right for a stock 2000 turbo, but the observed number is going to vary a lot with load, altitude, throttle position, etc. At 8000 ft and a wide open throttle under load, I think you should be seeing something near its max, though.
Since you have a lot of control with that 6-speed manual, what rpm were you running at? Peak hp on that 2000 is around 2500 rpms, but peak torque is a bit lower. I would guess your optimum performance under load would be in the 2300-2600 rpm range.
Note that the specs on the 99-03 models with the turbo are dramatically better than pre-99's, so don't let internet talk about previous 7.3L's confuse you. See the spec comparison at
http://www.powerstrokehub.com/7.3-power-stroke.html