1. I don't know either, nor would I rule out some of the other brands. Trojan has an outstanding quality rep, but not much track record YET with their Trilliums.
2. Optimal charging would require a new charger, but there is very little data available on the effects of using a decent quality lead-acid battery charger on LI batteries. The LI packaged as 12v replacements have charge management built-in that assists and "protects" the LI battery when used as a lead-acid replacement in an unmodified system, but I've not found any credible comparisons of battery life or performance. Trojan says their Trilliums are designed as Lead-acid replacements that can be used with existing deep-cycle chargers , but they don't give comparisons to use with an LI-specific charger. They do note that some existing deep cycle chargers may shut off before the Trillium reaches 100% charge. Sounds like a "your mileage may vary" kind of statement.
Be careful about applying info that applies to one Lithium battery type to another, e.g. Li-Ion, LiFePO4, LiMnPO4, LiMnCo - they have somewhat different attributes.
3. In the short run, much cheaper to stay with lead acid. Over a 10+ year period, maybe not.
4. If you currently have 200-230 AH of battery capacity, a single 75W-100W panel should easily replace self-discharge & phantom discharge losses, ASSUMING a reasonable amount of sunlight daily. It only needs a trickle to do that. But if you have more than the usual phantom discharge, say more than 0.3 amps/hr, you probably need more. Or you need to find and fix the source of the discharge.
If you haven't yet read thru the Trojan Trillium User Guide, do so. Trojan does an excellent job with their product literature and the User Guides have more useful info than the marketing ads. It includes a chapter on charging.
https://www.trojanbattery.com/pdf/Trillium_UsersGuide.pdf