Well, would be good to know more info...like is the black tank full? There are back flush valves that can clear a plug but you need some room in the tank. You hook the valve to the RV dump, connect the sewer line and a water hose, close the flush valve gate and open the RV dump valve... turn the water on. If the tank is near full it would be a good thing to have someone inside watching that it doesn't back up into the toilet. You can run some water in to push the plug back then open the gate and see if it dumps. A few tries usually clears the plug.
Another trick I have used to clear a plug is fill the gray tank. Now, with the sewer hose connected to the sewer and to the RV dump valve, hold the sewer hose up as high as you can and with the black dump valve open...open the gray dump valve. The gray water will put a back pressure on the plug. Now drop the sewer line and the gray water running out crates a suction on the plug. Might take a few tries. If the plug doesn't clear right away lift the line again before all the gray water runs out and drop it again. I have used that successfully a few times to help others clear a plug.
I watched...from a distance, one time while a guy with a plug closed his dump valve. He disconnected the sewer hose, put a bucket under the dump valve, opened the dump valve just a LITTLE and got a straightened out coat hanger passed the gate valve. His tank was close to the valve. He poked around until "stuff" started leaking into the bucket. Then he pulled the hanger wire out, hooked the sewer line up and opened the valve. It worked... but I don't think I will try that!!
To help pervent plugs dump a few toilets full of water into the empty tank before you start using it. Use regular single ply septic safe TP...you don't have to use the more expensive RV TP. Use plenty of water with each flush. Keep the black tank dump valve closed until the tank is near full. If it is time to leave and the tank isn't above 3/4 full add water until it is.
Good luck! Let us know how you make out and check back here, there will likely be more ideas posted.