Third should I upgrade coach batteries to lithoum ion and can I do it myself.
I have a 300AH Lifep04 in my Y2K RV that is used to start my 4K Onan genny. It works well, cranks fast. These batteries are not designed for engine starting, but they still work well for genny cranking.
Five years is all you should expect out of lead acids. Double that for Lifep04. With the way the Lifep04's have been dropping in price lately, I would say they are now a better deal than the lead-acids.
Most likely, if you do a direct swap it will work fine, even if the Lifep04 doesn't charge to 100%, but with your solar, it can charge to 100%.
There are other advantages of the Lifep04. They are lighter, can be mounted anywhere in any position and they do cannot corrode battery cables. They are about a volt higher. I cannot think of any disadvantages of Lifep04 these days. The big disadvantage years ago was the price difference, but now they are fairly cheap.
But when discharged, they will not give as much warning it is going dead. The voltage stays higher than a lead acid until it drops down very fast near the end of the charge.
So go for it! Just don't go by how well it is working to tell when it needs to be charged back up after a lot of use when not being charged. Better yet, wire in a
SmartShunt so you can see the SOC at all times.
-Don- Auburn, CA