A little late to the game here and most of this has probably already been covered. But it's a good summary I wish had when I started RV shopping.
If you're new to towing, there are a few things to consider:
1. The tongue weight: The published numbers are sometimes misleading. The manufacturers are supposed to include battery and propane weight but I don’t think they ever do (at least they didn't in my case). Once you add two batteries and propane for two tanks, your tongue weight will increase by about 170 lbs. And this is before you've even loaded your trailer. The best thing to do is confirm this number with a tongue weight scale or at a CAT scale. You will want to keep your tongue weight between 10% - 15% of your fully loaded trailer.
2. Payload: You will eat up a good chunk of your payload capacity with your tongue weight (you will gain a bit of this back with your WDH). Payload will usually become an issue before towing capacity. If you have kids, spouse, pets, etc. this will also eat into your payload. You will also have to account for any cargo you might load into the back of the tow vehicle.
3. Tow Vehicle Wheelbase: The longer the wheelbase, the better. There are some rules of thumb out there for wheelbase to trailer length, 110" for 20 ft length, then add 1 ft for every additional 4 inches of wheelbase. I don't believe this is based on any science that I've seen. Most people only use this as a guideline and will often go over by a couple of feet in trailer length. Again, the longer, the better.
4. Weight Distribution Hitch: Get a good one if you have a short wheelbase on your tow vehicle. The WDH will dampen any sway but won’t eliminate it. Important to note that a WDH will not decrease your tongue weight, it will only redistribute.
5. Trailer Weight: Most people will recommend that you keep your towing weight at 80% of your maximum capacity. If you will be towing mainly on flatlands, this won't be as big a concern. But it's good to have something extra if you're towing through the mountains.
6. GCWR: Make sure you’re not going over the rated GCWR of your tow vehicle. Always verify that the combined weight (vehicle + payload + trailer) stays under the GCWR and that the tongue weight doesn't cause you to exceed the payload capacity.
Just a few things. Happy camping!