New widow keeping her late husband's motorhome on the road

[kallista]

Hello, dear friends.
I’m new here, and I hope you’ll allow me a moment to introduce myself.
I’m a widow now — and in that quiet space between what was and what will be, I find myself holding onto something I never expected to keep: our beloved RV motorhome.
It was my late husband’s pride and joy. He was the wanderer, the planner, the one with grease on his hands and a map in his lap. I was simply his co-pilot, happy to brew the coffee and fold the blankets. But now… the motorhome is mine. And somehow, it feels wrong to let it sit still.
So here I am — a woman of a certain age, a little less brave than I pretend to be, but determined to learn. I don’t know much about engines or hookups or tire pressure. What I do know is that this home-on-wheels still has miles left in her. And perhaps… so do I.
I would be grateful for your kindness, your patience, and maybe a little of your wisdom.
With a hopeful heart,
A new friend on the road

 

[LarsMac]

Let me be the first to welcome you.
There are a lot of people here who probably know the answers to all your questions.
So pull up a chair and ask away.

 

[SMR]

Welcome to the forum

 

[garyb1st]

Welcome to the RV Forum. Many of the members refer to other members as framily. There's a reason for that and I'm sure you'll find it to be true as well. I agree with LarsMac. It's unlikely you'll ask any question that you won't get an answer to. And here's the best part, members love it when newbies ask questions. So ask away.

 

[Larry N.]

Welcome to the forum. Take your time and ask lots of questions, but roam through the site, too -- there's lots of good info here.

 

[Gary RV_Wizard]

Welcome aboard! Let me assure you that there are more than a few solo RVers, including solo ladies. We have some singles here, and most of our members are helpful regardless of their marital status..

There are organizations specifically for solo RVers, e.g. Loners on Wheels (LoW) and Wandering Individuals (WIN). Learn more about such groups at Solo RVer Clubs Take The Lonely Out Of Alone

 

[CamperAL]

Hi Kallista,

Welcome aboard! It would help the members here, if you could tell us a little bit about your RV. If it is a class A, class C, trailer you pull and so forth. The year, brand and model would be helpful also.
(whoops just saw in your info you have an Airstream)

There is a lot of good reading here to help you out on how to do things to your RV and upkeep and so forth. Tire pressure is important item. You can meet some of the members while camping and I'd say most if not all of them would be willing to assist you in learning the ropes of your RV.

Also just ask if you have questions and there are a lot of knowledgeable members who will help you out so you understand.
You can do it!

 

[Oldgator73]

Welcome to the forum. I would posit that most any questions you might have can and will be answered here. There is a vast array of expertise among the members of this forum. Some of us no longer own RV’s have hung up the keys for various reasons while some here are new to RVing and others have been at it for many years and are still going strong. We all hope your journey is enjoyable and without incident. There’s a lot to see and do out there. Have fun.

 

[jlhog]

Hello and welcome. If you are from Hastings, MI we are practically neighbors.

 

[NY_Dutch]

I'm sort of on the other side, in that my wife died recently, and after living with her in our motorhome for a dozen years, I can't bring myself to even spend the night alone in there. You can be sure though, any questions you have I'll be happy to add anything I can to the expert answers you'll receive here. My best wishes on your future travels!

 

[Bearcatrp]

Welcome to the best RV forum on the internet. Sorry for your loss. Sounds like your RV is the drivable type. If so, basically like a car. Check all fluids, proper air pressure in tires, the basic stuff. Have you driven it before? Know anyone close that has an RV to? Maybe someone you went RVing with? They could help you out. There are allot of pro RVers on this forum. When in doubt, log on here and ask away. Good luck.

 

[d23haynes57]

Yesterday marked a year for me being a loner. Retired from primary job and then widowed. What a trip. We were on our 4th RV, this one purchased March 2024. Home is in NY and also have a place in Florida. Grandkids keeping me grounded here. Guess the real question is do you feel comfortable driving and operating it? While my DW would drive the last 3, she did not participate in using the stuff. This one she made clear after our first trip that she would not even try to drive it. Besides traveling and camping I also do some sporting and concert events with other friends. Tailgate party fan. Try to get yourself out there.

Dennis

 

[Jackiemac]

Locking thread as this person is no longer a forum member.