just for an update, I found the petcock but it was made out of nylon and little chewed up, I tried using a quarter inch socket extension but was afraid of damaging it further. I was going to take off the bottom radiator hose to drain it, but the screw was facing upwards and nearly impossible to reach without cutting the clamp off, so I opted to just remove the upper hose from the thermostat housing, I only lost about a half pint of antifreeze that was in the short hose. Replaced the thermostat and gasket with a new 195 degree one, (the old one was stamped made in the USA so it was most likely the original!) re assembled everything and topped off the radiator and started the vehicle up to let her run for a bit, NO CHANGE!!!! it took 45 minutes for the engine temp gauge to reach center, and the air coming out of the vents never got above 75 degrees although the heater hose with the valve on it reached 115 degrees and the other hose coming out of the heater core was 90 degrees. The really strange thing though, is that when i turn on the coach heater, it blows nice and hot as it out of the floor vent between the seats like it should!!!!!!tomorrow, i will try to reverse flush the heater core and see if that makes a difference, this thing is driving me nuts trying to figure out what is going on!