In response to the initial question, I'd hazard a guess that the vault has limited processing capacity, and hitting it all at once would not be helpful to the system. If it has to be pumped out say every other Friday and you dump on Thursday night then maybe that is fine, but if you're hitting it with 45 gallons of cr@p when it is not part of the maintenance schedule then you may throw the schedule off. And if you don't know the schedule and capacity of the system you'd likely overwhelm it.
As far as dumping the tanks in the woods or in a remote spot, maybe take a hand shovel and crap in random areas, then burying your scat on an as-needed basis? Many animals do bury their waste unless there is a social or other reason for not doing so. I suspect that, socially, humans are not interested in identifying their neighbors' location by verifying the nature of scat deposits. Personally I'd be quite ticked/irritated if I happened upon someone's dump site with TP wads and other crap piled up in one spot as I hiked along. It is unclean and leads to serious diseases in many parts of the world to have such unsanitary conditions.
So the indignation you may feel is probably more of a level of disgust with such a volume-dumping approach as opposed to any self-righteousness. Just my two cents...
Of course, the idea of dumping your tanks in a "natural" setting vs. a tank is debatable to some, but from a cultural perspective I personally believe that someone else's scat is not something that I am interested in encountering, much less contact with my own. If I have NO other choice maybe I'd choose to dump tanks in a vault, however that would have to be the last option. I'd personally go with the camp-shovel approach and save my tanks for emergency use only. Then I can probably justify a trip to a designated dumping facility.
The linked opinion does not match my own, but if one is interested in discussing or researching the relative merits/demerits it is a starting point.
Some debate