Hey ,
Have you tought about remodling if you can't afford a new RV. I love doing projects myself and with two small kids it must be crowded for you. Maybe you could make bunk beds where the couch is making enough head room on the bottom bunk to be able to still sit and use it as a couch.
Kids love bunk beds and maybe you could even put a rod up and a curtain so they can pull it closed at night.
For me, I wouldn't put the bed as you have it up and down every day because then you can make the kids feel like their sleeping area is in the way
Don't worry about asking questions- people ask alot of questions because they need to understand and visualize the siuation first in order to answer better for you. I think RV Roamer was trying to do that. He has been so helpful ...you will se. Also on the computer you need to really explain so people understant, at times it is hard to get them to visualize it without a real good explaination.So keep on asking and you'll get some good solutions.
RV 4 Life- I once asked about a refigerater problem. My first question- I had someone who kept explaining to me how to drill a hole in the side, bla, bla and talking about freezing beer. Well, I am blonde but I don't drink and the hole didn't work! HA HA . Don't sweat it. Sometimes you will get suggestions like, just buy a new or bigger RV...yea when I win the lotto i'll do that! But at this time I am working and supporting myself . I'm almost sure you wouldn't be using the dining area if you could afford a bigger RV...and you wouldn't be asking the question if you could do that......I could be wrong here, but home is where the heart is.