What would we do different, or what would I do different? It all still goes back to what each one of us need at the time we decided to purchase an rv. Most of the time few people buy what they think they may need 30 years down the road, or even 10 years down the road. And folks in their senior years and retired rarely looks further than two to three years when talking about buying rvs. Some folks gets by with a sprinter van and are perfectly happy after retirement, which would not have worked for us 30 years ago.
At least thats been my observation. Of course most of us are all in different physical conditions and this may change the way we are thinking when talking about rving too. We surely could not travel the distances and do the same stuff we did 30 years ago and surely do not need what we needed when we had kids, dogs and cats in tow.
What is wrong with folks telling you that, with little to go on, beginning with not really know about your "bank account".
As you have probably read, one of the first things to consider if you are considering towing instead of motorhoming is your tow vehicle.Figure out your house of wheels first and then buy the tow vehicle to match.
Talk about not buying numerous rvs, way too many people do this completely opposite, trying to tow with something thats not matched to your rv. So after reading your last, start at your local truck dealership , even looking at a F 450 and get that while you continue to look at toy haulers that hauls your entire package without being strained.
By the way the entire premise of the thread is about buying what you consider the perfect rv, the first time around, and people actually confirmed this with their replies.