The most helpful information I have found is at www.fifthwheelst.com. They also have an app that you can plug all the weight information into the app and it will tell you if you are legal and safe to tow your trailer.
I hate to keep pounding at the legal card issues I see RV folks throw around but there is no jurisdiction in Canada or the USA that uses the trucks payload/GVWR or GCWR/tow rating to determine a trucks legal load limit. And no we will not nor has any one ever been sued in a court of law for being over weight from a number on a trucks yellow payload sticker.
Keep in mind the yellow tire placard didn't become mandatory until the '06 era although some truck mfg started using them in the '04/'05 era in certain lines.
I prefer the weight calculations our states/provinces gives us for how much weight we can safely carry on our trucks.
They can read like this one from BC;
weight scales
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(2) The driver of a vehicle on a highway, when directed by a traffic sign on the highway to drive over scales, shall drive the vehicle to the scales for the purpose of weighing the whole or part thereof by means of stationary or portable scales, measuring the dimensions of the vehicle and load, measuring and inspecting the tires thereon, inspecting the load carried, or for any purpose under this Act or regulations.
(3) The gross weight of any tandem axles and the gross weight of any group of axles shall be the sum of the gross axle weights of all the axles comprising the tandem axles or the group of axles, as the case may be.
(4) The gross weight of any vehicle or combination of vehicles shall be the sum of the individual gross axle weights of all the axles of the vehicle or combination of vehicles. "end"
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or as a CA state troop commander says when asked in a email; (snipped as its quite long)
"Q: ?Many of the owners travel over their tow vehicle GVWR and /or
GCWR. Are there any state laws against this? Or does the owner just
take the risk if they wish??
A: The California Vehicle Code (CVC) does not contain a law that
specifically limits the amount of weight a vehicle may tow based on the
towing vehicle GVWR or GCWR. There are, however, laws that limit the
amount a vehicle may tow based on other criteria.
(snip for length)
Section 1085(d) of Title 13 California Code of Regulations prohibits
the loading of tires above the maximum load rating marked on the tire,
or if unmarked the maximum load rating as specified in the applicable
Federal Motor Vehicle Safety Standard, or in a publication furnished to
the public by the tire manufacturer. This would most likely happen in
the case of a pickup truck towing a large fifth wheel travel trailer, as
those types of trailers tend to transfer a larger portion of their
weight to the last axle of the towing unit causing that axle to exceed
the tire load limits."
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IMO there is nothing wrong if truck/RV trailer owners want to use or recommend some type of RV weight calculator. Just be aware of actual legal load limit codes and not just a state /province published brochure or info sheet or guideline.