The "need" for 50A depends on you and your energy consumption habits. A surprising [to me] number of people are large energy users by habit and just can't seem to grasp the notion of having a limit on the available power. We work in campgrounds during the summer months and continually meet people who trip 30A breakers and can't understand why, even when it is explained to them. And among those who understand conceptually there are still many for whom keeping track of amps or watts is simply too much effort or perhaps just "too technical". If you [or your mate] fit into any of those categories, you "need" 50A because RVing life will be a continual hassle without it. Be aware, though, that many older campgrounds don't offer 50A service and most campgrounds charge extra for it, typically $3-4 per day.
30A isn't a lot of power - only about 3600 watts (each amp @ 120V yields 120 watts of power). Each a/c unit will draw about 1200-1400 watts in run mode and considerably more each time the compressor cycles on. Coffee makers draw 1000-1100, microwaves need 1200-1500, hair dryers also about 1200, and so on. Plus there is always a background consumption by things like the refrigerator, battery charger/converter, water heater, etc, and those will vary according to what else is happening at the time. For example, if somebody is taking a shower, the water heater will be drawing around 8 amps, but if no hot water is being used it is probably idle most of the time and draws no power. It is sometimes difficult to maintain an awareness of just how much power is being consumed at any instant.