Ex-Calif
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This is a new thread that might be fun. I broke it out of this thread after Tom and I started causes some serious thread drift. That's not really free delivery
Lots of us have traveled the world whether commercially or n the military. Americans ar "famous" for their "dead ears" when it comes to culture. Feel free to pile on with any anecdotes surrounding cultural faux pas or cultural sensitivity.
One thing in Japan we were cautioned about was inviting Japanese colleagues to our apartments. After a year or so I invited some colleagues to my 4,000 square foot apartment practically in the heart of Tokyo. For calibration this was the 90s and the rent was over $10,000 a month.
The cocktail party was going well with the Japanese expectedly reserved, polite and "nice." Finally I cornered one usually talkative guy and asked why he's been so quiet. "He thought for a minute and said. "Deutsch-san your living room is bigger than my whole house!" - Needless to say I realized that they were probably uncomfortable. I left the entertaining up to outside venues after that.
Another time a mid-level engineer came to me so proud that he finally bought an apartment. "Yes Deutsch-san. I have a great apartment for my family. It is 5th floor walk up and the commute to work is only 1 1/2 hours!" I was floored and asked him (probably rudely) how long it would take to pay the mortgage as in the US it was common to have a 30 year loan. "Deutsch-san. My grandchildren will still be paying for this loan." It was a 99 year loan at something like 1% interest.
Lots of us have traveled the world whether commercially or n the military. Americans ar "famous" for their "dead ears" when it comes to culture. Feel free to pile on with any anecdotes surrounding cultural faux pas or cultural sensitivity.
One thing in Japan we were cautioned about was inviting Japanese colleagues to our apartments. After a year or so I invited some colleagues to my 4,000 square foot apartment practically in the heart of Tokyo. For calibration this was the 90s and the rent was over $10,000 a month.
The cocktail party was going well with the Japanese expectedly reserved, polite and "nice." Finally I cornered one usually talkative guy and asked why he's been so quiet. "He thought for a minute and said. "Deutsch-san your living room is bigger than my whole house!" - Needless to say I realized that they were probably uncomfortable. I left the entertaining up to outside venues after that.
Another time a mid-level engineer came to me so proud that he finally bought an apartment. "Yes Deutsch-san. I have a great apartment for my family. It is 5th floor walk up and the commute to work is only 1 1/2 hours!" I was floored and asked him (probably rudely) how long it would take to pay the mortgage as in the US it was common to have a 30 year loan. "Deutsch-san. My grandchildren will still be paying for this loan." It was a 99 year loan at something like 1% interest.