whiteva
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Where do you store the whips, cuffs & bondage equipment?
(I'm so old I forgot who gets tied up)
PS: the devil made me post this!
(I'm so old I forgot who gets tied up)
PS: the devil made me post this!
On that note I was thinking a ball-gag might be a good solution.Where do you store the whips, cuffs & bondage equipment?
(I'm so old I forgot who gets tied up)
PS: the devil made me post this!
Where do you store the whips, cuffs & bondage equipment?
(I'm so old I forgot who gets tied up)
PS: the devil made me post this!
Thanks @donn . Yes, we're only looking at models with a bunkhouse on the other side. I appreciate your insights. They truly are helpful. I also find it funny that this post of mine has some of the most replies. Hehe.As a thought. If your going fiver get one with rear bunks for the kids. Some even have a half bath for them. That puts you about as far away as a S&B house. Can you scream and thrash about without arising suspicision? Not likely. C an you have an active and rewarding sex life? Sure. We did it for over 35 years. As my girls got to teenagers they liked their privacy too so it was a couple of tents during nice weather.
Thanks @uchu . I appreciate your insights. They truly are helpful. I also find it funny that this post of mine has some of the most replies. Hehe.It takes practice and patience, but it's doable.
Hilarious! Thanks @Oldgator73 (love the name). Extra stabilizers, noted. Replace mattress, noted. I appreciate your insights. They truly are helpful. I also find it funny that this post of mine has some of the most replies. Hehe.You will need to get rid of the mattress that comes with the RV and purchase a really good one. Noise might be a problem. Don’t know how old the kids are but 2-3 Benadryl before bedtime (for the kids; if you and wife take it there won’t be any sex) and they will sleep through the noise. Extra stabilizers will also help. Reminds me of the time my wife and I were tent camping, we had an old Sears canvas tent, and I had to go pee so went outside. We had a gas lantern hanging in the tent. Well, I finished my business and went back in the tent and informed the wife that everything we had done earlier could be seen in perfect shadow from the outside.
Thanks @Detroit. We actually don't need to hide it from the kids. Just thinking about outsiders.How to deal with the kids.. Can't help you there.. Many CG's have activities where the children will be supervised for a period of time. many do not, and of course they can always return unexpected.
Also you can put a 2ndary lock on the door like a hook and eye type that can only be opened from inside.
And finally a sign
Thanks @Gary RV_Wizard . We're actually not planning to hide it from the kids. We discuss the topic openly with kids. It's more about the scene from outside the RV. Great point that it will still wiggle especially when we're "wiggling" inside.If you are concerned about what the neighbors see/hear/think, then you will just have to tone down your enthusiasm a bit. But if you aren't embarrassed that others know when & what you are doing, then do nothing. Sounds to me as though you are firmly in that latter camp!
RVs aren't very sound-proof and they wiggle a bit even with jacks firmly planted. You can't change that, so deal with it in one of those two ways. Of course, you can try to choose campsites that don't have close neighbors, but that may not always be practical.
Whoa! No way. Haha. When I say, "we're open about it with the kids", I mean that we discuss sex with them openly. They hear us at the house and we are okay with that. It's not a shameful thing in our house. However, we certainly do it in private and never in the open. Thanks for the insights.I have always heard people say that if you brag about having sex, you ain't getting any. I don't know of too many campgrounds that have old folks walking about outside at bedtime. So as long as you don't have a noisy suspension system, unless people outside are walking along your camper, I would not worry about the outside world.
But not to get into whether you are fine with teenage kids and having their own sex as a casual act , which is what it sounds like you are fine with no matter their age right now, sex was always more emotional than the final results.
I am not sure that I would be comfortable and enjoy getting naked and getting wild in front of them. So I recommend a toy hauler set up as a seperate apartment with beds, which are avaliable. The 5th wheels that I have seen with bedrooms next to the master bedrooms have little barrier for wild games.
But without videos, it did not happen.
@Krazeehorse33 , interesting and fair point. I guess we're just concerned about neighbors because we've been in large houses and not in any apartment with shared walls for over 25 years. And.. the RV life is a new adventure for us leading us to investigate all the possibilities.If I was not concerned regarding my daughters I wouldn't be concerned about my neighbors.
@ziplock , Whoa! Don't brand me yet. What's creepy about sex and openly discussing and teaching our kids about the God-given pleasure between a man and his wife? I'd rather we teach our kids openly (that does not mean we show the, it means we're discussing it openly) than have them be taught by the world around them.Amen brother Ben!
Sounds creepy to me!
Something ain't right.
File this thread in the creepy loser section.
Hi @Skookum , thanks for the insight. We're not rough playing at all. Very intimate and quiet but certainly not still. I guess what I'm really asking is if the 6-point stabilizers on a fifth wheel handle the minor movements well. I think I was just freaked out when I was walking through them on the lot and they bounced so much because not all stabilizers were down.If this is a regular thing, you probably need scheduled time away from your kids, both young kids and adult kids. Neither probably want to hear their parents going at it. Find a cheap hotel room you can rent by the hour in town if you like to play hard, otherwise, tone it down for everyone's sake. There's a big difference between being open about sex and having it in close proximity to others who may not want to be party to it.
Thanks @Domo , that's really helpful and also funny. I wish the others here would see the point is that we have a healthy sex life as part of the love and care we have for each other and that this is not about being vulgar. I genuinely wanted to get some insights which some have given. Thanks again.You and the wife need to learn sign language... that will solve most of the problem!
The other thing to be cautious about is the steps up to the bedroom - so put up a gate so you don't fall down into the kitchen/living space.
Lastly - it's part of life. Please enjoy it even if you think you'll embarrass the kids (or the neighbors!). Believe me, they would rather look back and know that Mom and Dad loved and cared for each other.
Genuinely sorry, @Tom and Margi . I really just intended to get insights from experienced full-timers since we are just about to get into it. I did not intend the post to incite any poor behavior. Although, as a newcomer, I did gain some great insights from some posts here:I've participated in this forum for about 28 years. This is quite possibly the dumbest series of posts I have read in all this time.
Exactly, @Skookum! Thanks for understanding the reason for and seeing the sincerity in my question. I really just wanted to gain insights which I've gained. Thanks for the defense. Back-atcha!I'll take a swing at this. I'm a relative newb, joined about 3 years ago. All sorts of fun topics come up and this is the first time I've seen this question asked. Why not? Motorhomes, trailers and the like are TIGHT spaces and a lot of people co-exist with children in these things. How do people keep the sparks flying with their mate? How does one entertain themselves alone? We all deal with these things, right?
Funny, @SRGuy. I'll leave the "swinging" to the swingers. Nor our deal.Man...... Learn to be smooth with your moves! If you're so out of control that you're shaking your shack like some out of control humpty dog, then you and your significant other need to go back to sex school!
This gal I had out to my RV, in my single days, told me that my whispering "Shh...." in her ear, during her multiple moments of truth, so as not to wake her son up on the bed less than ten feet away, drove her to an intensity she never felt, before.
Yeah, get with the program! Failing that, send your kids off to a fun day with friends, when you and your partner want to get uncontrollably down and dirty. No big deal.......
Oh yeah, and your neighbors..... If they're asking you questions, then they're watching your rig. Invite them over... AFTER you send the kiddos on their way, as above. You might just bond with your fellow RV'ers in ways previously unimagined!