1275gtsport said:
Normally I stay away from gun topics because there is no real right answer, however. most responders are saying that the OP should get a gun..............I however would be very afraid of what would happen if that were to happen. based only on what was posted in the above quote (since I don't know the OP at all) neither one of them had their senses about them at the time. if the wife had of gotten a hold of a gun could she have used it? and used it correctly. or would she have simply shot out the bedroom window (or her husband)?
in any case IF you carry then YOU MUST be ready to use lethal force. right or wrong the choice is made when you draw the gun and point it at ANYONE you are ready to end that life RIGHT then, if it is a bad guy you had better be ready to pull the trigger without any hesitation, if it is a good guy then you had better be prepared to be shot. the good guys are trained to defend themselves. and when they see the gun YOU ARE NOW THE BAD GUY.
Stay safe and aware.
Thank you for your courteous comments. I could not agree more that anybody in such a tired sleep state would be unpredictable when they had the option of a gun. Combine that with the notion of shooting the flashlight guy, what a nightmare that would be and so much worse than actually discussing it with the deputy.
I acknowledge the risk of a tricky person bad guy luring me out with a verbal, "come on out, Sherrifs Dept" I learned that lesson & we have developed a plan for dealing with it in the future.
I've basically lurked my own thread since starting it while steering clear of offering my opinion. This had been a great & positive learning experience & discussion. I am gun aware. I had done a lot of hunting with shotguns in the past. The gun-sporting lifestyle has been completely replaced with general family, family sailing & family skiing and travel to accomplish & participate in skiing & sailing, so we don't have time for gun based sports. I know enough about guns that I actually do not want to have guns in my own home. I have a massive healthy respect for guns & knowledge about gun safety that I have lacking in many gun toters (friends). (example drinking & shooting, yikes)
I don't feel that more guns are the answer to day to day problems. I think there are very few situations where having a gun is the only & best answer.
Getting into a gunfight in a plywood & styrofoam RV habitat with my family in it would be the last thing I would ever do.
Obviously we all have different perspectives and backgrounds, and others have a different perspective. I'm fine with that. We all make our own choices. You carry if that is what gives you comfort, security & safety. Carrying would not grant me that peace.
Thanks for all the input!
I'm glad we have had this discussion, so that perhaps somebody is AWARE that you might get a startling knock at the door in the wee dark hours. We had not previously considered that as a possibility for some reason.